Celebrate the 4th: Be Thoughtful

Are you getting together with family or friends for your 4th of July celebration?  If you’re going somewhere as a guest, consider taking along a small gift for your hostess.  If you’re the one hosting you could send your guests home with something to remember the day.

What about a box of sparklers?  Tied with a ribbon and a little tag you’ve got a quick and easy token of appreciation.

You could also consider sharing something homemade.  I filled a pint size mason jar with good water for a refreshing drink.  These would be a fun thing to give your guests when they get in their hot car to head home, or for your hostess to enjoy when she’s finally able to sit down and relax at day’s end.




A bouquet of flags would also be pretty with or without flowers.  It would be useful and a great reminder of the day you’re celebrating.


These are just a few little ideas to spark your creativity when you either head out the door or open your door in welcome.  I’d love to hear what you do!

**If you’re looking for an easy 4th of July activity for the weekend, check back tomorrow morning for a pdf version of my annual trivia!

Hopeful Homemaker

Celebrating the 4th: Dress up the table



Holidays and food seem to go together.   Every holiday is made festive by adding a few touches of personality to your table.  Over the years I’ve learned to watch for items that will work for many occasions and holidays.  I try to purchase dishes and decor that are one color plus white.  This means I can mix and match for multiple occasions.   I like to challenge myself to see new potential in the things I have on hand when I get ready for a party instead of feeling like I need to go shopping.  It’s so much fun to survey what I already have and be creative.


Vintage tablecloths are a great way to set the mood and my red,  white and blue tablecloths are among my favorite.  I like the aqua touches in this one because they play well off the aqua table on my back porch.  Notice the Pop Shoppe bottles are just red and white which makes them versatile enough to use year round.


I also used a blue and white tray, polka dot napkins in both blue/white and red/white topped by forks that are white with blue stars.  None of these items is exclusively for the 4th of July, yet used together they’re perfect for my favorite holiday.


I have a talent for collecting tiny but adorable dishes when I visit Crate & Barrel.  These small bowls are new this year; again two of them are just one color with only the third having red and blue stripes.  They’re perfect for serving desserts or snacks.


A plain red serving bowl,  white drink dispenser and some American flags complete the serving table.  By mixing colors and patterns it’s a beautiful table.

A few other ideas:  make a bouquet of flags for the center of your table, find some red and white striped fabric and make a table runner, hang stars above the table.  Buy paper flags on toothpicks and stick them in one of your dishes.  If you want to use plain white napkins try this idea with festive ribbon.  I avoid paper plates and napkins with actual flags printed on them; it doesn’t sit well with me to be “eating” off the flag or wiping my mouth on it.

Dress up your table for the 4th of July, even if it’s a simple meal with your immediate family.  This little dinner was just for my husband and children and it warmed my heart to observe how much they enjoyed and appreciated my efforts.  It made them feel special and communicated my love to them.  I hope you find something new and creative to do with what you’ve already got.

Celebrate the 4th: The Declaration of Independence



I thought this image of the Declaration of Independence was interesting.  What good is a blurry copy?  It made me think a little bit about this essential founding document.  How long has it been since I’ve actually read it?  How well do I understand it?  How many Americans have ever read it in it’s entirety?

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness…”

We all know this sentence, but is that all we know?  It’s a rather lengthy document, yet we’re apt to quote less than a sentence and dismiss the rest.  Granted, the sentence we quote is laden with power, promise and principle but there is more.  Are we well-versed in the logic of the document, in its expression of the purpose of government and the source of government’s power?  Are we well-versed in the claims against George III, listed in order to lay open the case before the world?

If we aren’t, if we haven’t read it recently (or ever), then isn’t that like having a blurry copy?  It’s blurry because we haven’t studied it, blurry because we think we know what’s in it but perhaps we don’t, blurry because not knowing what it really says makes us vulnerable to the interpretations of others who would like to obscure our understanding of its meaning and relevance.

This year I’ve decided that our family isn’t going to have a “blurry” take on the Declaration of Independence.  We’re reading and annotating the Declaration as a family and I challenge you to do it, too.

I printed copies of the Declaration of Independence from this website so my children could have their own copy to write on.  Going one paragraph at a time, we’re reading it individually and aloud.  Each of my children underline any words they don’t understand and then we discuss their meaning until each person has a solid understanding (according to their age) of the paragraph.   It has been wonderful to read it with my children, to hear their questions, to watch them understand.  It’s also been healthy for us as parents to teach it, to work at phrasing explanations in ways that are true to the intent of the founders.

I cheerfully acknowledge my love for the festive side of patriotism but also realize that if all I give my children is a love for three colors and great food we’re in danger.   We cannot afford to honor the fluff and leave another generation bereft of a comprehensive knowledge of the principles of liberty, self-government, and of our nation’s true history.

I’ve read three books about Abraham Lincoln in the past few weeks.  One about his political genius, one about the Gettysburg Address and one about Lincoln’s religious beliefs.  It has been richly rewarding to immerse myself in several scholarly studies of such a singular man.  One thing that impresses me was his understanding of the Declaration of Independence and the way he traced the problems of his generation back to the Declaration and used the Declaration to sort through issues and stand on principle.  Truly, the Declaration guided his actions and thoughts as an individual and as President of the United States of America.  His example has been a motivation to me.  I want to give my children this gift, the ability to take current problems and examine them through the lens of true principles AND history.  And so, following Lincoln’s example, we have begun with this great document.

If you don’t do it with your family, I hope you’ll at least take time to print and read a copy yourself.   Mark the parts that confuse you, get out a dictionary and study them until they make sense.  When you’re done,  make a list of at least five ideas in it that impress you and find someone to share them with.  I promise you’ll be glad you did.  With a little effort we’ll soon see it clearly.


Jennifer

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