Imagination



Ever had a campfire on your front porch?


I went through my garage to take the trash out, and when I turned around I discovered one on mine.

A few minutes later, they had added camping chairs, sticks and marshmallows.


They learned that marshmallows don’t fit on yardsticks very well, and that some fires take a very long time to melt marshmallows.


Of course they chose to do it right after a rain storm, so the adventure included a lot of mud.  Sometimes I’m tempted to feel frustrated about the mud on the porch, the fact that when people come to the door they can’t actually get to the door with chairs, sticks and rocks in the way.  Stepping on Playmobil toys gets old, and occasionally I feel frustrated when I find nice dishes in the toy room.

But I have to remind myself that imagination is a wonderful thing.


This is good, old-fashioned, imaginary play.  I’m glad that they’re creative, that they dream up adventures like this.  They’re making memories.  They’re interacting with each other.  They’re using what they have to create something they’ve got pictured in their heads.  My house would stay much cleaner if they spent more time in front of the television playing games or watching movies, but I choose this.  I choose imagination.

Half way through the summer I hid the power cord to the Wii, announced a hiatus from movies and watched to see what would happen.  It’s been great.  Lots and lots of creative play.  Little minds brimming with ideas.  More reading.  More books coming to life in their play.  More camaraderie among them.


And I’ll be honest, more messes.  Or perhaps I should call it evidence.  But I tell myself that it’s a good trade, that it will pay off in the end.  Still, I wish that my own imagination could bring to life Mary Poppins’ snap.   THAT would be something I’d enjoy.

Hopeful Homemaker

Glimpse of the future

Our oldest child was born 9 1/2 months after we were married.  I’ve had babies and little ones in my life constantly since then.  While I know it isn’t the case, I often feel like I will be in this stage forever, that I will always have a cute little body running circles around me and wiping their nose on my shirt.


I really can’t picture the day when there won’t be someone in a princess dress to carry around.

Yet every once in a while I observe one of my children and see a faint image of them twenty years from now.


As I watched my toddler pick up the hem of her white princess dress and run across the room, from behind I saw her as a bride, holding the hem of her dress to run to the man of her dreams.


As she twirled in the sunlight I got a little taste of the bittersweet feelings that will, one day, be reality.


I get so comfortable with how they are NOW that I feel like they’ll be this way forever, and then one day I realize that they’ve changed.  Today I was reminded that the time will pass more quickly than I think, that I’ll wish for one more day with each of them small enough to hold in my lap to tickle and kiss and rock them.  That sometime soon my arms will be empty and my shirt will be clean.


And I smile through my tears.

Hopeful Homemaker

Play-Doh



Play-doh.

It’s great stuff.  Kids love it, it’s inexpensive and it promotes creativity.   There are so many reasons to like it.

I hate it.  I try not to feel that way, but as it gets broken into tiny pieces, tracked all over my kitchen and into the carpet, my stress levels go through the roof.    I am not a good play-doh mom.

Not anymore.

It’s all about location.


Play-doh is now an outdoor only activity at our house.  It’s a win-win arrangement.  They get to play with it all they want and I don’t find it all over my house.

They’re happy.  I’m happy.

Hello, Play-doh.

Why didn’t I figure this out years ago?

Hopeful Homemaker

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