Birthday Recap



Wow, is it fun to have a twelve year old daughter!   Just yesterday I was looking at a picture of her at three months, a big smile on her face.  The time has flown by and it’s been so much fun.  Here’s a quick look back at her birthday festivities.


This picture of the birthday girl hugging her two year old sister tugs at my heart.   These two have a special relationship which I hope they manage to keep over the years.  It’s sweet to watch the two year old idolize the older one, and the older one be so loving and patient with the little one.  The same goes for the baby, below.


We had a fun celebration at home and the birthday party for friends was the following day.  We baked sugar cookies in seven different shapes and had a cookie decorating party.  I taught them all how to outline and flood each cookie with royal icing and then we let them loose.




I’ll admit to mild feelings of dismay when our guests turned the decorating tips on each other.


I kept quiet, however, and they had a great time.






I failed to anticipate how much noise twelve year old girls make, even while decorating cookies.  In my mind I pictured a cookie decorating party for some moms a couple of years ago, remembering how quiet we were.  I planned the party for the evening so my husband could take the other 7 upstairs and put them to bed.  In reality it was so loud that even the baby couldn’t sleep and we had a very noisy house for several hours.

Still, the cookies were cute…





…the girls had fun…

…and the birthday girl was happy.


For the record, here are some favorites at age 12:
Favorite song:  You Belong With Me, Taylor Swift Favorite food:  spaghetti Favorite dessert:  apple pie Favorite color:  pink and blue Favorite sport:  soccer and gymnastics Favorite movie:  Man From Snowy River Favorite book she’s read:  Love Comes Softly Series Favorite book she hasn’t read:  Twilight (stole it from Mom and read half) Favorite Shakespeare play:  Twelfth Night Favorite outfit:  jeans and an Aeropostale t-shirt, with a hoodie when cold Favorite dressy outfit:  new green sweater (thanks Grandma!) with black skirt OR gray ruffle skirt, white shirt and silver gray cardigan Favorite piece of jewelry:  jingle bell necklace and bracelet (from a friend) Favorite store:  Aeropostale Favorite friends:  Riley, Jessie, Kelsey, Erica, Sydney (2nd cousin), Savannah, Samantha Favorite class at school:  Theater/Drama Favorite saying:  “Sweet lady, ho ho”  (see above favorite Shakespeare play) AND “Be not afraid of greatness, twas well written…. Some are born great, Some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them.”  (from same play) Favorite word:  antidisestablishmentarianism Favorite scripture:  1 Nephi 3:7 Favorite snack:  goldfish crackers Favorite candy bar:  3 Musketeers Favorite candy:  chocolate covered cinnamon bears (along with much of the family) Favorite way to do her hair:  pony tail Best thing about being twelve:  graduating from Primary to Young Womens

For you…



I love vintage Thanksgiving postcards and wanted to share one with you today.    It comes with hope that your holiday will be one that nourishes your spirit as well as your body, one that centers your heart in that which matters most, one that inspires you to live with greater dedication and appreciation.

One of my favorite books is William Bradford’s history of Plymouth Plantation.  I love reading about life for the pilgrims as it reminds me how much like us they were.  I also love reading of their conviction that God was their strength and their support.  May I share one quote from him, “And thus they found the Lord to be with them in all their ways, for which let His holy name have the praise forever, to all posterity.”

May you, too, find the Lord to be with you in all your ways.  May we all spend more time praising Him for His presence in our lives. May we work diligently to preserve this knowledge as part of our collective memory so we do not leave our children bereft of the great strength that comes with knowing that in every age God has kept his promises, and HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO.

Happy Thanksgiving With all my heart, Jennifer

Golden Wheat

Last night I made a quick trip to my local thrift store looking for something specific.  Naturally, I didn’t find it, but I did find this:


It was the pattern that made me stop.  A picture of golden wheat on each plate:


My mind’s eye automatically pictured a few treasured pieces of vintage Madeira linen I had at home.
This wheat pattern I have in a set of four placemats.  The detail on them is intricate and lovely.  I marvel that someone spent countless hours placing each stitch by hand.


But this is the piece the china reminded me of most.  A Marghab piece in the New Wheat pattern.  Breathtaking.


In my ultimate Thanksgiving dreams I would have 30 of these placemats to serve Thanksgiving dinner on.  The pattern is so simple and sophisticated.  I love it.

And so I stood there, pondering the china, reflecting on the timeless symbol of golden wheat and how aptly it communicates appreciation for simple things:  for sustenance, for harvests, for the beauty of the earth.  I turned one over.


22 karat gold!  Usually I’m not interested in gold, but my heart quickly made an exception.  I counted the pieces.  Twenty-eight in all.  Twenty-eight pieces of china for $18.  They came home with me.


Later that night I stood at my kitchen sink and carefully washed each piece.  I noticed how the gold has largely washed off many of the dinner plates, leaving only a hint of the shine that once graced each rim.  I noticed stains on a few, and scratches on the wheat image in some places.  I couldn’t help but wonder about whose Thanksgiving table was graced, obviously many times, with these beautiful pieces.  I wondered at the memories the plates held, the family recipes they’ve seen, the conversations held around that table.


Part of me felt sad for whatever twist of fate sent this lovely stack of dishes to the thrift store.  Did someone pass away?  Did enough of them finally break that they no longer were used?   Why did no one want them?

My sister-in-law serves Thanksgiving dinner on her grandmother’s china.  Each year they are carefully washed by hand and stored lovingly.  I watch this ritual take place in honor of a wonderful woman, and feel a twinge of envy that no such heirloom will ever be mine.  I envy the act of remembrance it represents, not the dishes.  I look at my newly acquired china and wonder why no one wished to do the same with it.


I wish to.

My heart whispers a silent “thank-you” for the twist of fate that brought this treasure to my home, for the chance to use them tomorrow.  There aren’t enough for the large group we’re expecting, but we will use them for dessert.  The thought makes me smile.  It means that tomorrow night I get to stand again at my kitchen sink to carefully wash them as I reflect on the memories of the day.  Tomorrow these plates begin a new journey, gathering memories at my kitchen table to be carefully stored away until next year.

The thought makes me smile.  And would you believe there’s even sunshine outside?
Life is good.

Jennifer

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