Hearts Ahead

It’s February.  Valentines day is in 13 days.  I guess when it’s winter we need something to celebrate.


I don’t believe in letting Valentines day get BIG.  But it is a lot of fun to gather supplies and make sweet things.  It’s also a fun time to focus on expressing love to my family and making them feel like the crazy special people that they are.

I always have more ideas than I can use and most years I don’t get to them, but this year I’ve promised myself some time to experiment, try some of my ideas and see what I can come up with.

One of them might involve those sprinkles.  They’re about 1/16th of an inch in size and I can hardly get over how cute they are.

What are you planning for Valentines Day?

Jennifer

This Holiday Brought To You By…



Mom.

It’s one of my favorite parts of being a Mom, but really, if you think about it, without Moms there wouldn’t be many celebrations.  Understand that I say this with great respect and appreciation for my husband who provides financially for our family, whose contributions make possible most of what I do.

I’ve been thinking about the role of Moms in the holiday season, and really we’re responsible for a tremendous amount of what Christmas means to all of us.  As grateful as I am for this privilege, sometimes it’s incredibly heavy.  It isn’t easy to tackle all your usual responsibilities and add the holidays to your list.  Moms are the ones who get up when the gifts have been opened and go to the kitchen.   They’re the ones who plan the menu for meals the rest of the family only thinks about while they’re eating.  They’re the people who clean up the kitchen in time to start the next meal while everyone plays games.


Really, it’s great to be a mom.  I love it.  But tonight I also wanted to say to all you Moms who have, on so many levels, provided holidays and celebrations for your family all year long:  WELL DONE.  I hope you feel good about your efforts.  They’re the things your family will look back on and remember with fondness.

I wasn’t sure if I was up to much for New Year’s Eve, but at the last minute I decided to light the victory candles and go for it.  It’s been a good year, a year I’ve been happy to spend with the nine people I love most.  We needed a proper celebration.

I went for a silvery white feeling, using my sliver dishes, sparkly beaded garland, candles and glass.


Sometimes it’s nice to get out our nicest dishes when it’s just us.  No guests, just the people that matter most.


My little ones were so excited to be using the vintage glass platters I picked up recently.


I served some of our favorite appetizers:  veggies and dip, chips and salsa, cheese and crackers, meatballs and little smokies.


As we ate we talked about things that have happened this year.  Things we’ve accomplished.  Specific blessings God has given us.  It was a wonderful summary of a full year coming from different perspectives.


I feel grateful to have all ten of us together tonight without other plans or parties.  It feels right.  I love these people.


We’re spending the evening gathered in the family room, enjoying the gift of togetherness.  I look forward to another exciting year with this group, and hope that you’re looking forward to a great 2011.


So wherever you are and whatever you’re doing, Happy New Year to you!
Jennifer P.S.  I’ll be back tomorrow with my goal for 2011.  What are yours?

Christmas 2010 recap

There were so many memorable things about our trip to Denver for Christmas.

There are 34 of us in all (and counting!), and we were all together for the first time in more than two and a half years.

We played games, talked together, had pictures taken, played with the children.  And we cooked.  Lots and lots of food.  I intended to take pictures of so many things, but in the end I spent my time running from one thing to another, being a mom, cleaning, cooking, visiting.

We acted out the Nativity on Christmas Eve, letting everyone choose their parts.  I think we had four Marys and three Josephs.   It was short and sweet.  Very sweet.  Especially the angels.


Then the children were tucked in bed, anticipating a visit from Santa.  Our poor baby threw up all night long, making for an interesting development in holiday activities.  Christmas morning dawned with my husband and I exhausted and the children excited.  I was in charge of the meals on Christmas day and in my worry about getting breakfast going I didn’t even get a picture of all eight of my children on Christmas morning!  Shame on me.  Oh well.  Gratefully they were all happy with their gifts.

For what it’s worth, these are my favorites among the shots I managed to take.


She’d asked for a Santa hat.  He shared one with her.


In her new pink nightgown.


Tearing open gifts with lightning speed.


My awesome husband (above) held our vomiting baby ALL DAY LONG so I could oversee Christmas Dinner for 34 people.


Denver Broncos pjs, a coonskin cap and playmobil toys.  Could a boy be happier?


My six year old with her new doll.


My three year old with her new bitty baby and backpack.


The dreamed of dragon now belongs to this boy!

The best part might have come at the last.  My husband hid our oldest son’s gift in the closet next to the broom.  We were all opening gifts when he asked our son to grab the broom and sweep up a little mess.  Of course, the response was “I didn’t make that mess.”  We asked again.  After some convincing, he reluctantly went to get the broom.

I wish I’d thought to turn on my flash sooner, but these blurry shots still capture the essence of what followed.


The broom came out and he almost turned and walked away.  Instead he did a double take.


He sets the broom down and leans back against the wall in disbelief.


Finally he reaches into the closet and pulls out a new snowboard with his name on it.  He walks to the entryway where he stops to laugh in surprise and joy (and his mom gets her camera working properly… why didn’t we video tape this?).


While his Dad stands across the room laughing and smiling that smile that only comes when you do something wonderful for someone because you love them wholeheartedly.


And then I went to the kitchen and before I knew it Christmas was over.  But it was awesome.

Jennifer

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